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Welcome, I’m Elvery Tinsley!

I know how heavy it feels to carry the unseen weight of stress, disconnection, and expectations in your relationships. For over a decade, I’ve been helping women, couples, and communities heal the patterns that keep them stuck and rediscover what real connection feels like.

As a licensed therapist, relationship expert, speaker, consultant, and founder of Harmony Counseling Network, I specialize in creating spaces where people can show up as their full selves, without judgment and without having to carry it all alone. My work is rooted in evidence-based approaches, cultural awareness, and the belief that healing happens in relationship, with yourself, with others, and within community.

Through therapy, intensives, workshops, support groups, and organizational partnerships, I guide clients to:

  • Recognize the emotional rhythms shaping their lives

  • Reset unhealthy patterns with practical tools

  • Rebuild lasting connections at home, at work, and in community

Because when you reset your rhythm, you don’t just feel better, you begin to thrive in every relationship that matters most.

Fun Facts 

  • I was born and raised in Gary, IN. 

  • Married my husband at the young age of 18

  • Mom of 3 young adults 

  • I cherish quality time with my family. I value my self-care. I love spending time with friends.  

  • I love to read, I'm a self-help literature junkie! 

  • I love to travel and retail therapy IS a form of therapy.

My CORE values 

  • Being authentic-I show up as ME, my whole self 

  • Fun, life isn't meant to be boring, LIVE while you have LIFE

  • Growth- evolving and willing to learn 

  • Compassion for myself and others 

  • Boundaries- upholding mine and respecting others 

  • Minding My Business- yes it’s so easy to do

  • Regulating My Emotions- I’m not a hypocrite, I practice what I preach


My Training & Qualifications

Indiana University-Indianapolis 

  • 2018- Bachelors in General Studies -focus Behavioral Science and Psychology, Minor Sociology

  • 2022- Masters in Counseling MS. Ed., Mental Health Certification, LMHC

Mental Health License-

Professional License # 88002751A

Under supervision of Ranada Dalton.

Let’s work together.

Interested in working together? Fill info below and I will be in touch within 24-48 hours.